This phenomenon, sooner or later faces every married couple, one repeatedly asks another to do something, the other ignores the request, both more irritated. Experts say that inability to hear each other in the end can ruin a marriage.

Why do we "sawing" to each other? "You have the impression that you do not get from another what you want, you think you have to pester him asking," - says psychologist Scott Vettsler (Montefiore Medical Center, New York). A vicious circle: the one "sawing" tired of nagging and begins to withdraw into himself, and then "sawyer" is still grumbling.

According Vettslera, its role here plays the character: the people assembled, or neurotics akkuratisty unwittingly besieged by requests and advice of others, especially if they are careless. "There are people who resist the inherent features of the requests (some would call them lazy), any such desire to awaken their" cut "- adds the author.

"Nit-picking can be a major shock to the divorce when the couple quarreled because of nit-picking, rather than to discuss their fundamental problem," - recounts the author opinion Markmena Howard, professor of psychology at University of Denver.

Unlearning the habit of "cut" can be, declares the author. According to experts, the first step out of the vicious circle - to recognize that you are mired in quarrels and try to understand each other. "Your husband is - lazy and stale? Or maybe he's just overworked and too much work? Wife really makes it clear that no longer trust you? Or it's just hard to cope with so many household chores?" - The article says.

The journalist gives some advice to those who "saws" and one "sawing."

1) Calm down and realize that you both have to learn to behave differently.

2) Try to look at the situation through the eyes of a partner.

3) If you tend to "nag", change the wording. Begin a sentence with "I" or "me" instead of "you" "I would like you to pay your bills on time" rather than "You never pay your bills on time."

4) Explain why you are important to the request was made: "We are not rich enough to pay the penalty."

5) Ask for what is feasible and appropriate.

6) Set the schedule, ask when the husband expects to comply with the request: "Can you change the oil in the car this weekend?". Let him tell you when it is more convenient to fulfill the request.

7) If the "sawing" you, let us clear answers: Honestly, if able to fulfill the request and when. And if we promised to do.

8) Examine the alternatives: it may be easier to hire a master, than to quarrel?

This phenomenon, sooner or later faces every married couple, one repeatedly asks another to do something, the other ignores the request, both more irritated. Experts say that inability to hear each other in the end can ruin a marriage.

Why do we "sawing" to each other? "You have the impression that you do not get from another what you want, you think you have to pester him asking," - says psychologist Scott Vettsler (Montefiore Medical Center, New York). A vicious circle: the one "sawing" tired of nagging and begins to withdraw into himself, and then "sawyer" is still grumbling.

According Vettslera, its role here plays the character: the people assembled, or neurotics akkuratisty unwittingly besieged by requests and advice of others, especially if they are careless. "There are people who resist the inherent features of the requests (some would call them lazy), any such desire to awaken their" cut "- adds the author.

"Nit-picking can be a major shock to the divorce when the couple quarreled because of nit-picking, rather than to discuss their fundamental problem," - recounts the author opinion Markmena Howard, professor of psychology at University of Denver.

Unlearning the habit of "cut" can be, declares the author. According to experts, the first step out of the vicious circle - to recognize that you are mired in quarrels and try to understand each other. "Your husband is - lazy and stale? Or maybe he's just overworked and too much work? Wife really makes it clear that no longer trust you? Or it's just hard to cope with so many household chores?" - The article says.

The journalist gives some advice to those who "saws" and one "sawing."

1) Calm down and realize that you both have to learn to behave differently.

2) Try to look at the situation through the eyes of a partner.

3) If you tend to "nag", change the wording. Begin a sentence with "I" or "me" instead of "you" "I would like you to pay your bills on time" rather than "You never pay your bills on time."

4) Explain why you are important to the request was made: "We are not rich enough to pay the penalty."

5) Ask for what is feasible and appropriate.

6) Set the schedule, ask when the husband expects to comply with the request: "Can you change the oil in the car this weekend?". Let him tell you when it is more convenient to fulfill the request.

7) If the "sawing" you, let us clear answers: Honestly, if able to fulfill the request and when. And if we promised to do.

8) Examine the alternatives: it may be easier to hire a master, than to quarrel?

According to Russian expert on the Middle East and Islam George Mirsky, whose words are quoted by the material, the principle of Russian policy to block reads: "Syria is not Libya should become."

"According to Mir, Russia dominates the view that the West cheated Moscow in the case of Libya," - writes the author.  And the West defanatly cheated the world then!!

Mirsky, according to the author, also said that after "the Libyan shame" important foreign policy decisions are made only Putin and Prime Minister wants to show himself strong and independent leader, "never dancing to the tune of America." Says Mirsky, Russia, nobody believes that the West is really important is democracy.

"Nevertheless, the Mir in the case of Syria sees rational reasons for a course in Moscow. He said that military intervention can cause a radicalization of the Islamists there, compared to which the Egyptian" Muslim Brothers "will seem child's garden," - says the author.

On Iran, Mir, says the author, said that Tehran seeks to demonstrate that can build a bomb at any moment, but really not going to do. And a tightening of sanctions by the U.S. and the EU has one goal - to prevent a military attack by Israel.

According to Russian expert on the Middle East and Islam George Mirsky, whose words are quoted by the material, the principle of Russian policy to block reads: "Syria is not Libya should become."

"According to Mir, Russia dominates the view that the West cheated Moscow in the case of Libya," - writes the author.  And the West defanatly cheated the world then!!

Mirsky, according to the author, also said that after "the Libyan shame" important foreign policy decisions are made only Putin and Prime Minister wants to show himself strong and independent leader, "never dancing to the tune of America." Says Mirsky, Russia, nobody believes that the West is really important is democracy.

"Nevertheless, the Mir in the case of Syria sees rational reasons for a course in Moscow. He said that military intervention can cause a radicalization of the Islamists there, compared to which the Egyptian" Muslim Brothers "will seem child's garden," - says the author.

On Iran, Mir, says the author, said that Tehran seeks to demonstrate that can build a bomb at any moment, but really not going to do. And a tightening of sanctions by the U.S. and the EU has one goal - to prevent a military attack by Israel.

Western countries are increasingly convinced that Israel might strike at their own Iranian nuclear facilities, says Adrien Zholm in the newspaper Le Figaro .

Crisis caused by Iran's nuclear program, is entering a critical phase. On Monday, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has welcomed the European embargo as a "first step in the right direction," but he also warned that "sanctions should evolve as achievement," the newspaper writes.

"Despite the secret war, during which they killed four Iranian nuclear scientists, explosions occurred at military facilities, there have been a virus attack on computers that support the operation of enterprises to enrich uranium, Tehran continues to implement its nuclear program and, according to most experts, is soon be able to build a nuclear weapon "- the article says.

Western countries, and especially Americans, fear that the Israelis can cause a sudden pre-emptive strike against Iranian nuclear facilities than to provoke a full-blown crisis in the Middle East. "Iran now has all the necessary components to build an atomic bomb - has warned the former head of Israeli intelligence in an interview with Amos Yadlin Israeli newspaper Maariv. - But they are phased so as not to provoke them against taking dramatic measures. We and the Americans understand this their strategy, "- said the journalist.

But this is understanding diverges on the urgency of the matter. "Israel calls a" red line "the possibility of sudden acceleration (Iranian) program, the Americans believe that this feature is not near, - said Yadlin. - United States - a world power and has the strategic capabilities that are not in Israel", - he stressed.

Israel sees Iran's nuclear program, not as a diplomatic issue, but as a threat to its existence, the article says."The Jewish people and the Israeli government have a right, obligation and opportunity to prevent the destruction of the Jewish people or the attack on his country - said Benjamin Netanyahu, in connection with the approaching anniversary of the Wannsee Conference, planned extermination of the Jews of Europe. - The difference between 1942 and 2012 year that we have the ability to defend themselves, and determined to do it. "

"According to the British weekly Sunday Times, during a telephone conversation between Netanyahu and U.S. President Barack Obama, Israeli Prime Minister refused to rule out an attack against Iran, promising to put Washington in recognition of their plans 12 hours, in other words, at the last minute with a diplomatic and military point of view "- the author writes.

Western countries are increasingly convinced that Israel might strike at their own Iranian nuclear facilities, says Adrien Zholm in the newspaper Le Figaro .

Crisis caused by Iran's nuclear program, is entering a critical phase. On Monday, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has welcomed the European embargo as a "first step in the right direction," but he also warned that "sanctions should evolve as achievement," the newspaper writes.

"Despite the secret war, during which they killed four Iranian nuclear scientists, explosions occurred at military facilities, there have been a virus attack on computers that support the operation of enterprises to enrich uranium, Tehran continues to implement its nuclear program and, according to most experts, is soon be able to build a nuclear weapon "- the article says.

Western countries, and especially Americans, fear that the Israelis can cause a sudden pre-emptive strike against Iranian nuclear facilities than to provoke a full-blown crisis in the Middle East. "Iran now has all the necessary components to build an atomic bomb - has warned the former head of Israeli intelligence in an interview with Amos Yadlin Israeli newspaper Maariv. - But they are phased so as not to provoke them against taking dramatic measures. We and the Americans understand this their strategy, "- said the journalist.

But this is understanding diverges on the urgency of the matter. "Israel calls a" red line "the possibility of sudden acceleration (Iranian) program, the Americans believe that this feature is not near, - said Yadlin. - United States - a world power and has the strategic capabilities that are not in Israel", - he stressed.

Israel sees Iran's nuclear program, not as a diplomatic issue, but as a threat to its existence, the article says."The Jewish people and the Israeli government have a right, obligation and opportunity to prevent the destruction of the Jewish people or the attack on his country - said Benjamin Netanyahu, in connection with the approaching anniversary of the Wannsee Conference, planned extermination of the Jews of Europe. - The difference between 1942 and 2012 year that we have the ability to defend themselves, and determined to do it. "

"According to the British weekly Sunday Times, during a telephone conversation between Netanyahu and U.S. President Barack Obama, Israeli Prime Minister refused to rule out an attack against Iran, promising to put Washington in recognition of their plans 12 hours, in other words, at the last minute with a diplomatic and military point of view "- the author writes.

Mass murders, for which the organization undertakes Boko Haram, are calling Nigeria and the international community, says Guido Olimpio in an article published in the newspaper Corriere della Sera .

"The massacres committed in Nigeria Islamist organization Boko Haram, is the message that it aims at in his own country, but also that she became a pillar of regional kaidizma." African Taliban "have passed this way with impressive speed: three years ago it seemed that after the assassination of its leader, Mohammed Yusuf, the organization will cease to exist. But its members have left for neighboring countries, to heal the wounds and reorganized, establishing external contacts "- the newspaper writes.

"According to Western intelligence, movement, dreaming to establish Sharia law in Nigeria, sent his men in the Tribal Areas of Pakistan, a true university of terrorism: there they adopted the methods of combating the jihadist. Other members of the organizations have established operational contact with" Al-Qaeda Arab Maghreb "(AKAM .) Algerian leader Abdelmalek Drukdel AKAM department does not hide the fact that African brothers supplied arms and assists "- the author writes.

"According to French intelligence agents, Nigerian militants receive advice from Somalia" Al-Shabab, "which, in turn, defend their territory and intend to extend the range of its efforts to" punish "the African countries (Uganda), for the fact that they have sent in Mogadishu, our troops, "- said the reporter.

"According to experts on African affairs, the radicalization of Boko Haram has occurred, including, and as a result of a split in the movement of moderates and radicals. Jihadi leader has Abubakar Shek, mastermind of the Islamic offensive. They say he does not live in Nigeria, but prefers to drive between Cameroon, Niger and Chad. Thus, it is safe and has the ability to recruit manpower in these countries. AKAM imitating and "Al-Shabab", Boko Haram wants to be perceived not only as a local, but also as an international movement. In the opinion leaders movement, it is important to "join the caravan," as taught man that no longer exists. Osama bin Laden "- writes a correspondent.

Mass murders, for which the organization undertakes Boko Haram, are calling Nigeria and the international community, says Guido Olimpio in an article published in the newspaper Corriere della Sera .

"The massacres committed in Nigeria Islamist organization Boko Haram, is the message that it aims at in his own country, but also that she became a pillar of regional kaidizma." African Taliban "have passed this way with impressive speed: three years ago it seemed that after the assassination of its leader, Mohammed Yusuf, the organization will cease to exist. But its members have left for neighboring countries, to heal the wounds and reorganized, establishing external contacts "- the newspaper writes.

"According to Western intelligence, movement, dreaming to establish Sharia law in Nigeria, sent his men in the Tribal Areas of Pakistan, a true university of terrorism: there they adopted the methods of combating the jihadist. Other members of the organizations have established operational contact with" Al-Qaeda Arab Maghreb "(AKAM .) Algerian leader Abdelmalek Drukdel AKAM department does not hide the fact that African brothers supplied arms and assists "- the author writes.

"According to French intelligence agents, Nigerian militants receive advice from Somalia" Al-Shabab, "which, in turn, defend their territory and intend to extend the range of its efforts to" punish "the African countries (Uganda), for the fact that they have sent in Mogadishu, our troops, "- said the reporter.

"According to experts on African affairs, the radicalization of Boko Haram has occurred, including, and as a result of a split in the movement of moderates and radicals. Jihadi leader has Abubakar Shek, mastermind of the Islamic offensive. They say he does not live in Nigeria, but prefers to drive between Cameroon, Niger and Chad. Thus, it is safe and has the ability to recruit manpower in these countries. AKAM imitating and "Al-Shabab", Boko Haram wants to be perceived not only as a local, but also as an international movement. In the opinion leaders movement, it is important to "join the caravan," as taught man that no longer exists. Osama bin Laden "- writes a correspondent.

In an interview with the Spanish El País European Commission Vice President Antonio Tahani openly accused the rating agencies is that they are "working on the dollar", constantly lowering the credit ratings of the European Union, "are not transparent and make many mistakes." He also called the "shantazhistskimi" last steps agencies undertaken in anticipation of review by the Council of Europe on the introduction of the so-called "Tobin tax" on financial transactions. Therefore, he supports the early establishment of a European rating agency, which would work effectively, independently and transparently.

According to Tahani, a political response to the discontent of the citizens of austerity measures and the growing popularity of anti-European parties would be to enhance Europe's role: "Because we are suffering because of the global attack on the euro and return to the old national currencies would not solve any problems, however, lead to catastrophe "- quoted publication.

He stressed the need for effort on the part of all Europeans in the current global crisis, and spoke about the concerns of the European Commission the issue of creating new jobs and work to develop the tourism sector, noting the need to simplify the visa regime to attract the Chinese, Brazilians and Russians, "who spend more all. ""We are experiencing a moment in which we all must work together to overcome one of the worst crises in the history of Europe. The political situation in Europe is improving, but we face the difficulties of the global economic crisis", - said Tahani, told Georgina HIGUERAS.

In an interview with the Spanish El País European Commission Vice President Antonio Tahani openly accused the rating agencies is that they are "working on the dollar", constantly lowering the credit ratings of the European Union, "are not transparent and make many mistakes." He also called the "shantazhistskimi" last steps agencies undertaken in anticipation of review by the Council of Europe on the introduction of the so-called "Tobin tax" on financial transactions. Therefore, he supports the early establishment of a European rating agency, which would work effectively, independently and transparently.

According to Tahani, a political response to the discontent of the citizens of austerity measures and the growing popularity of anti-European parties would be to enhance Europe's role: "Because we are suffering because of the global attack on the euro and return to the old national currencies would not solve any problems, however, lead to catastrophe "- quoted publication.

He stressed the need for effort on the part of all Europeans in the current global crisis, and spoke about the concerns of the European Commission the issue of creating new jobs and work to develop the tourism sector, noting the need to simplify the visa regime to attract the Chinese, Brazilians and Russians, "who spend more all. ""We are experiencing a moment in which we all must work together to overcome one of the worst crises in the history of Europe. The political situation in Europe is improving, but we face the difficulties of the global economic crisis", - said Tahani, told Georgina HIGUERAS.

"The Iranian morality police have new problem: in order to prevent the spread of harmful influence of Western culture in the Islamic state, she has to hunt for Barbie dolls, more precisely, to theirvendors." About this newspaper Die Standard , with reference to the affected vendors.

The struggle against the "decadent West", including against dolls, bears now the name "soft war" - is not new, the article says. "Back in 1996, religious leaders denounced the Barbie, the product of the American toy group Mattel, as" not corresponding to the canons of Islam "because it allegedly entails destructive cultural and social implications" - similar to the newspaper.

"Merchants are forced to hide the forbidden goods for toys allowed to get away from the searches of the fighters for morality. Throwing bestseller nobody wants" - the newspaper. Despite the fact that in 2002, were issued by the Islamic dolls rival Sara and Dara, Barbie in Iran are still popular. Dolls, unlike Barbie, sold not with her, and with a handkerchief-covered hair, and dressed not in tight clothes.

"The Iranian morality police have new problem: in order to prevent the spread of harmful influence of Western culture in the Islamic state, she has to hunt for Barbie dolls, more precisely, to theirvendors." About this newspaper Die Standard , with reference to the affected vendors.

The struggle against the "decadent West", including against dolls, bears now the name "soft war" - is not new, the article says. "Back in 1996, religious leaders denounced the Barbie, the product of the American toy group Mattel, as" not corresponding to the canons of Islam "because it allegedly entails destructive cultural and social implications" - similar to the newspaper.

"Merchants are forced to hide the forbidden goods for toys allowed to get away from the searches of the fighters for morality. Throwing bestseller nobody wants" - the newspaper. Despite the fact that in 2002, were issued by the Islamic dolls rival Sara and Dara, Barbie in Iran are still popular. Dolls, unlike Barbie, sold not with her, and with a handkerchief-covered hair, and dressed not in tight clothes.

Regime of the Islamic Republic of Iran continues to bet on a double play. "On the one hand, itprovokes the West confused threats - for example, in the event of tougher sanctions to block the Strait of Hormuz to international maritime traffic. On the other hand, he again expresses its intention to allow the country to IAEA inspectors and announced its readiness for new negotiations on its nuclear industry, which , however, to what Tehran does not oblige, "- writes Die Welt .

For many years, Islamist theocracy in Tehran, well able to evade responsibility by means of a red herring. This tactic is used, and now, says the author of the publication of Richard Hertsinger.

"Tehran's goal is as painless as possible to reach the so-called point of no return, then there are times when the world will have to assume that Iran will soon have a nuclear bomb (...). For only one opportunity to do this last step in nuclear weapons provide an opportunity to blackmail the Tehran regime as their counterparts in the Middle East and beyond, just as in Asia, it is possible to do in North Korea. "

A lot, says Hertsinger indicates that the final map will be revealed later this year. "Tehran is unlikely to ever recognize the fact that the regime had already hit the sanctions are much more painful than the official response makes it clear." While Europeans can not achieve unity on the question of how quickly should introduce new sanctions. "Wait and see no easier, and will only complicate the situation: only if Tehran will pull the plug, there is a chance that the regime in an attempt to make concessions to survive.

The author believes that in any case should be prepared for a military confrontation.

"The regime in Tehran, which is having an increasing pressure to behave even more provocative and wildly, increasing their destructive activity, both in Iraq and Afghanistan and Palestine, the sharper will feel the approach of its collapse."

The international isolation of Iran's worse: the fact that "it smells like kerosene," smelled and such ardent defenders of Tehran, as Russia and China. "This is evidenced by the fact that Ahmadinejad was forced to visit the sclerotic Cuban regime and pose him with friendly rulers in Latin America to show off as a brave" anti-imperialists. "

Regime of the Islamic Republic of Iran continues to bet on a double play. "On the one hand, itprovokes the West confused threats - for example, in the event of tougher sanctions to block the Strait of Hormuz to international maritime traffic. On the other hand, he again expresses its intention to allow the country to IAEA inspectors and announced its readiness for new negotiations on its nuclear industry, which , however, to what Tehran does not oblige, "- writes Die Welt .

For many years, Islamist theocracy in Tehran, well able to evade responsibility by means of a red herring. This tactic is used, and now, says the author of the publication of Richard Hertsinger.

"Tehran's goal is as painless as possible to reach the so-called point of no return, then there are times when the world will have to assume that Iran will soon have a nuclear bomb (...). For only one opportunity to do this last step in nuclear weapons provide an opportunity to blackmail the Tehran regime as their counterparts in the Middle East and beyond, just as in Asia, it is possible to do in North Korea. "

A lot, says Hertsinger indicates that the final map will be revealed later this year. "Tehran is unlikely to ever recognize the fact that the regime had already hit the sanctions are much more painful than the official response makes it clear." While Europeans can not achieve unity on the question of how quickly should introduce new sanctions. "Wait and see no easier, and will only complicate the situation: only if Tehran will pull the plug, there is a chance that the regime in an attempt to make concessions to survive.

The author believes that in any case should be prepared for a military confrontation.

"The regime in Tehran, which is having an increasing pressure to behave even more provocative and wildly, increasing their destructive activity, both in Iraq and Afghanistan and Palestine, the sharper will feel the approach of its collapse."

The international isolation of Iran's worse: the fact that "it smells like kerosene," smelled and such ardent defenders of Tehran, as Russia and China. "This is evidenced by the fact that Ahmadinejad was forced to visit the sclerotic Cuban regime and pose him with friendly rulers in Latin America to show off as a brave" anti-imperialists. "